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  • But What About the AP?

    But What About the AP?

    Ahhhhh the affair partner, how many colourful names do we have for them? The dirty rotten pieces of work that they are—damn home-wreckers who set out to destroy our lives! Are they really? Here’s my theory, it may not be a popular one and at the risk of setting a cat amongst the pigeons, I’m… Read more

  • ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    Wow! Our first review on Amazon—5 flipping STARS! Eye-opening (reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2021) “Love is something we do.” “Change creates growth.” These are my two favorite kernels of wisdom from Beyond Betrayal, an eye-opening memoir that imparts precious knowledge about love, long-term relationships, infidelity, and trauma.* The book begins with… Read more

  • What Are The Odds?

    What Are The Odds?

    As people of faith, we’ve come to expect the unexpected, and often experience unusual coincidences/situations when we’re on the cusp of doing something that might ruffle a few feathers. So, it came as no surprise when we were faced with a mildly awkward situation on Wednesday. Our book is ready for release, Dave and I… Read more

  • Free eBook Download—48 Hours* Only!

    Free eBook Download—48 Hours* Only!

    Who doesn’t love a freebie? Yes, it’s finally here. Dave and I are almost ready to release our Memoir, BEYOND BETRAYAL 28 Years, LIES-DECEIT-INFIDELITY. A story taking 30 years to create and 2 years to write. As promised you get to read it first with your very own advanced reader copy eBook. This link to… Read more

  • The Art of Conflict

    The Art of Conflict

    Dr John Gottman of the Gottman Relationship Institute identifies the greatest predictors of divorce as, “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. These horsemen are, criticism and contempt defensiveness and stonewalling. Dave and I hit an area of conflict last night and all I will say is that the four horsemen were well and truly going… Read more

  • Secrets, Seduction, Silence, Shame

    Secrets, Seduction, Silence, Shame

    Sssshhh… grab yourself a cuppa and click away—there’s some good links in this one. Secrets Is it bad to keep secrets? What harm could possibly come? Dr John Gottman says “When you’re keeping secrets, you’re hurting your own ability to love”. Seduction Seduce my mind and you can have my body, find my soul and… Read more