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Affair Recovery
Why a specialist approach is essential to healing from infidelity. Read more… You can’t mend a broken bone with a bandaid, please don’t rely on basic marriage counselling to lead your affair recovery. Read more
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Who or What Do We Hang Our Hope On?
I’d love to begin with a Happy New Year blog but there’s a burden stirring within so I’m going with that! Over the past twelve months, the world of affair recovery has seen three power couples (for the lack of a better term) sorrowfully reach a point of separation. For those of us who have… Read more
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With Humility & Gratitude
This is our final blog post for 2021, and wow, what a year it’s been. On top of becoming a first-time co-author, I studied full time and successfully completed a Diploma of Counselling through the Australian Institute of Family Counselling. I’m planning to put this to work in 2022! Here’s a sneak peek at my… Read more
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Anniversaries & Triggers
Anniversaries and triggers are a painful reality following any traumatic event. Reactions can be variable depending on timing and circumstances, reminders are pretty much unavoidable—triggers may come from out of the blue and can be damn intense, to say the least. We, humans, are an interesting species, we need to attach meaning to almost everything,… Read more
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Is it as Hopeless as it Seems?
The initial discovery of your relationship being rocked by infidelity will feel completely overwhelming and catastrophic. Both of you will likely experience` everything from shock, denial, rage, despair, disbelief, loathing, anger and then there’s the shame of it all. If you’re anything like me, you might feel that there is absolutely no hope for the… Read more
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Dear Unfaithful
Dear unfaithful, There’s probably a lot in this that you’re not going to want to hear—but you really need to if you want to begin to understand what’s happened. Imagine that you’ve just dropped a nuclear bomb on your marriage, your spouse, yourself and your family. The world as you once knew has been annihilated—napalmed—and… Read more